tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1490016312003097758.post8399294059739425796..comments2024-03-19T05:58:29.584+00:00Comments on Karma-Style blog: ‘Menfem’ or just too fem?Camilleahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03812778373375378754noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1490016312003097758.post-80709613270289338882010-03-01T09:31:13.708+00:002010-03-01T09:31:13.708+00:00Okay, I am totally old school and just not great a...Okay, I am totally old school and just not great at compartmentalization. If a guy *looks* feminine, I'm not going to take the time to figure out if that really makes him feminine. I just turn my attention to someone who's more well, masculine by my definition. <br /><br />Personal biases are just that. We don't have to beat ourselves up for it! So go ahead and think what you will Judy Balanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06523355096059330548noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1490016312003097758.post-3409740560407531032010-02-28T12:08:38.794+00:002010-02-28T12:08:38.794+00:00No that's a great insight, which I'll take...No that's a great insight, which I'll take on board - Thank you anonymous!Camilleahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03812778373375378754noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1490016312003097758.post-55708537972172352042010-02-28T08:45:09.609+00:002010-02-28T08:45:09.609+00:00I think it's because you identify a "real...I think it's because you identify a "real man" with a certain look and style. When really I think, if you were asked to describe your version of a real man, you'd only come up with a set of behaviours (i.e. strong, assertive etc).<br /><br />I suppose the way around it, is to rethink the notion that someone looking feminine doesn't have to actually make them feminine. <br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com